8 Cozy Winter Solo Date Ideas for Single Moms to Relax and Recharge

Winter brings shorter days and chilly nights, but it’s also the perfect season for solo dates that nurture your spirit and help you unwind. As a single mom, taking time for yourself can feel impossible. But solo dates, even just for an hour or two, are a small gift you give to yourself—a chance to breathe, reflect, and recharge. Here are eight cozy, creative ideas for winter solo dates that you can enjoy alone, guilt-free!

 

1. Bookstore + Café Combo

There’s something magical about spending an afternoon in a warm, cozy bookstore. Grab a coffee, find a nook, and dive into a new book or magazine. Some bookstores have reading areas or cafés where you can sit and enjoy your drink in peace. This solo date is a perfect escape from the everyday hustle, giving you time to unwind and soak up some inspiring stories.

2. Spa Night at Home

No need to book an expensive spa appointment to feel pampered. Create a DIY spa night at home with your favorite skincare products, a warm bath, candles, and maybe even a calming playlist. Focus on activities like a facemask, a long bath, or even a quick at-home facial. End the night with a soothing tea and a cozy blanket—self-care at its finest!

3. Movie Marathon or Series Binge

Pick a movie or series you’ve been dying to see and make it a solo screening event! Dim the lights, grab a cozy blanket, and set up your favorite snacks. Bonus points if you have a warm cup of hot cocoa or mulled cider on hand. Whether it’s a feel-good rom-com or an inspirational documentary, the choice is yours!

For other ways to add simple joys to your weekly routine, my Self-Care Checklist for Single Moms helps you prioritize nourishing activities like cooking, journaling, and more.

4. Nature Walk in the Snow

A winter walk can be refreshing and peaceful, especially if you’re near a park or forest trail. Bundle up, wear comfortable boots, and take a leisurely stroll. The quietness of winter, with fresh snow or frost on the trees, can be incredibly grounding. Use this time to connect with nature and enjoy some time to yourself.

5. Cozy Art Project at Home

Whether it’s painting, knitting, scrapbooking, or even adult coloring books, let yourself get lost in a creative activity. You don’t have to be an artist—just have fun with it! Put on some soothing music, pour yourself a warm drink, and create something just for you. It’s all about embracing the joy of creation without any pressure.

6. Winter Market Stroll

Many towns and cities have winter markets with seasonal foods, crafts, and warm drinks. Spending a little time browsing through a winter market can be a refreshing way to treat yourself, and it’s also a great way to pick up unique holiday gifts. Plus, the festive lights and cheerful atmosphere can be a real mood booster!

Looking to make self-dates a habit? My Single Mom’s Guide to Dating as a Side Quest gives tips on creating meaningful solo dates and prioritizing time just for you.

7. Journal + Reflection Night

Sometimes, the best way to feel reconnected with yourself is through journaling. Light a candle, grab a cozy blanket, and set aside some time to reflect on your goals, dreams, or even just your day-to-day thoughts. You could focus on gratitude, make a list of what you’re proud of this year, or set intentions for the upcoming season.

If journaling feels like a good fit, the Single Mom Self-Worth Glow Up Guide provides journaling prompts tailored to single moms, helping you boost confidence and focus on your personal growth.

8. Cooking or Baking Adventure

Put on your favorite playlist and try out a new recipe, just for yourself! Whether it’s a hearty winter soup or some festive cookies, cooking solo can be a relaxing and rewarding experience. The best part? You get to enjoy your creation afterward, curled up with a warm drink and a good book or movie.

 

Final Thoughts

Finding time for yourself as a single mom isn’t easy, but it’s essential for recharging and feeling like you again. Winter can be a time for cozying up, taking things slow, and truly enjoying those solo moments. Try one of these winter solo date ideas next time you have a free evening—you deserve it!

Encourage yourself to start slow, even if it’s just 20 minutes here and there. Self-care, especially as a single mom, is a way to honor your strength and dedication to your family. 

And if you need a little extra reminders from a fellow single mom who gets it, sign up for the Empowered Glow Up Series, where I text you 10 days of love notes full of tips and prompts that will get you started on your glow up journey as a single mom. Completely free <3